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What My Horse's Tongue Taught Me About Healing | Nahshon Cook | LFRF 59

✨ "I've never used Baucher to train anything. I've always used Baucher to heal." – Nahshon Cook✨ "Does your horse feel good after you've done what you've done with them? ... That's connection." – Nahshon Cook Nahshon Cook is a classical dressage trainer based in Colorado whose path began riding donated horses as a kid at the Urban Farm at Stapleton, an inner-city youth program in Denver. Two mentors — Cynthia Spalding and former Cadre Noir rider Jean-François Fabier — introduced him to dressage before he was out of his teens, and after a detour through divinity school, Southeast Asia, and a stint training show and race horses in Thailand, he returned to Colorado and built a reputation for taking on horses other trainers had given up on.The conversation moves through Nahshon's approach to kissing spine, poll and TMJ tension, and how he reads a horse's tongue as a barometer for what's happening throughout the rest of the body. He walks through three distinct flexion positions he uses to unlock the hips, stifle, and hocks, and describes rehabilitating horses diagnosed with DSLD and a herniated disc using Baucher-based flexion work, treats, and nervous-system regulation. A rich, wide-ranging conversation that moves between technical dressage detail and questions of safety, mercy, and what it means to truly listen to a horse. FREE Helios Harmony Intro Course: https://longridehome.com/onoutpoutAll Books Mentioned: https://longridehome.com/books What You'll Learn in This Episode00:02:07 – How riding at the Urban Farm at Stapleton in Denver opened the door to dressage00:06:13 – What mentor Cynthia Spalding taught him about feel, not just technique00:11:21 – Learning from ex-Cadre Noir rider Jean-François Fabier and matching training to each horse's breed00:19:18 – Leaving divinity school for Southeast Asia, and training horses in Thailand00:31:14 – Why he swore off training for clients, and how horses get used as "bait"01:05:13 – The real cause of kissing spine: tension in the poll and TMJ01:07:38 – How to use a noseband correctly so it helps the horse feel safe01:15:44 – Reading the tongue as a map to the horse's fascia and poll01:26:16 – The three flexion positions that unlock the hips, stifle, and hocks01:30:45 – Treats, poll work, and grooming tools for regulating the nervous system Memorable Moments from the Episode00:38:31 – A client asks a 15-year-old Nahshon to fake a South African accent to hide his age00:49:34 – Healing a chronically colicking horse with stones and touch01:14:33 – Popping a horse's spine and ribs back into place with Baucher flexions01:28:06 – A herniated-disc horse's dramatic physical release during a flexion session01:55:15 – Nahshon closes the conversation with an original poem Guest Contact & Linkshttps://www.facebook.com/NahshonCookHorsemanship/ About Nahshon CookNahshon Cook is a classical dressage trainer based in Colorado who began riding at 13 through an inner-city youth program and went on to study with mentors from two different dressage traditions before he turned 18. His approach centers on reading tension in the poll, TMJ, and tongue as the key to unlocking a horse's back and hind end, and he's known for taking on horses — including cases of DSLD, PSSM2, and herniated discs — that other trainers and vets had written off. He now holds small working gatherings in Wisconsin rather than teaching public clinics. See All of Rupert's Programs and Shows:Website: https://rupertisaacson.com Follow Us:Long Ride HomeWebsite: https://longridehome.comFacebook: https://facebook.com/longridehome.lrhInstagram: https://instagram.com/longridehome_lrhYouTube: https://youtube.com/@longridehome New Trails Learning SystemsWebsite: https://ntls.coFacebook: https://facebook.com/horseboyworldInstagram: https://instagram.com/horseboyworldYouTube: https://youtube.com/newtrailslearningsystems Affiliate Disclosure:Links to books and products may include affiliate tracking. We may earn a commission if you make a purchase, at no extra cost to you. Thank you for supporting the show.

Miniature Horses, Memory Care, and the Neuroscience of Connection | Sanaa Pharayra of Romeo Roadshow | EAW 59

Sanaa Pharayra runs the Romeo Roadshow, a Southern California-based program that brings miniature horses named Romeo and Ziggy directly into memory care facilities, senior day programs, and hospital rooms for people living with Alzheimer's and dementia.What began as a rescue project for a single abandoned, feral miniature horse has grown into a program now drawing research interest from the University of Southern California and Cal State Channel Islands. Faculty there are studying why repeated visits from Romeo and Ziggy appear to reduce fear and increase engagement in residents, even those who don't consciously remember the horses' earlier visits.Sanaa and Rupert dig into the neuroscience behind why this works, from oxytocin and cortisol to brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF), and compare notes on what it actually takes to train a horse for genuine emotional engagement rather than quiet compliance. They also discuss Sanaa's own Bedouin and Arab-Israeli ancestry, discovered as an adult, and what it might mean for the program's future. If you want to support the show, you can do so at Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/LongRideHome ✨ "I call it the awe factor. That's what I see in these people's faces — they're in awe." – Sanaa Pharayra 🔍 What You'll Learn in This EpisodeHow a rescued, feral miniature horse named Romeo became the foundation of a therapy program that now visits memory care facilities across Southern CaliforniaWhy repeated visits from the horses reduced residents' fear within just three visits, even when they had no memory of the horses' previous visitsWhat staff report when comparing horse therapy visits to the dog therapy programs already in place at the same facilitiesHow Sanaa connected with The Connected Horse program, founded by Nancy Scheer and Paula Hirtel, and their research advisor Dr. Claudia SonderWhy Romeo Roadshow is now partnering with USC and Cal State Channel Islands, working with Professor Ronald Verkowski, to formally study its effectsHow oxytocin, cortisol, and BDNF (brain-derived neurotrophic factor) explain the neuroscience behind equine-assisted therapyWhy horses must be trained for genuine emotional engagement, not just quiet compliance, to be effective therapy partnersWhy Sanaa believes people with more advanced cognitive decline may respond even more strongly to the horses once language falls awayHow Sanaa discovered her Bedouin and Arab-Israeli heritage as an adult, including her grandfather's history as a "Faras," an Arab horseman who raced ArabiansWhy Sanaa and Rupert believe the program could eventually support conflict-resolution work in the Middle EastWhat Sanaa's long-term vision is for Romeo Roadshow, including plans for a documentary and a newly filed 501(c)(3) nonprofit statusHow the program is exploring intergenerational partnerships that pair university students with senior residents through the therapy visits🎤 Memorable Moments from the Episode[00:13:00] The Painted Turtle charity holiday party visit that reveals Romeo is a therapy animal  [00:20:00] Residents who were once afraid of the horses lose their fear within three visits, despite not remembering earlier ones  [00:58:00] Rupert cites a University of Bournemouth study showing a 51% reduction in domestic violence a year after a five-week equine intervention  [01:01:00] Rupert describes his horse Clou spontaneously nuzzling and licking a boy believed to be in a vegetative state  [01:17:00] Sanaa describes "the awe factor" she sees on residents' faces during visits  [01:44:00] Sanaa learns via a message from a cousin that her grandfather was a "Faras," an Arab horseman who raced Arabians  [02:08:00] Rupert suggests a documentary title: "Where for Art Thou?"  [02:11:00] A nonverbal elderly man musters the words "I grew up on a farm" during a hospital room visit with the horses 📚 Contact, Projects, and Resources MentionedSanaa Pharayra – Founder, Romeo Roadshow  https://romeoroadshow.com  New Trails Learning Systems – Horse Boy Method, Movement Method & Takhin Equine Integration https://ntls.co  Rupert Isaacson / Long Ride Home https://rupertisaacson.com  Patreon Support https://www.patreon.com/LongRideHome  🌍 Follow UsLong Ride Home  https://longridehome.com  https://facebook.com/longridehome.lrh  https://instagram.com/longridehome_lrh  https://youtube.com/@longridehome   New Trails Learning Systems  https://ntls.co  https://facebook.com/horseboyworld  https://instagram.com/horseboyworld  https://youtube.com/newtrailslearningsystems 📊 Affiliate DisclosureLinks to books and products may include affiliate tracking. We may earn a commission if you make a purchase, at no extra cost to you. Thank you for supporting the show.

What My Most Dangerous Horse Taught Me About Letting Go | Dominique Barbier

✨ "Your horse does not anticipate. He simply reads your mind." – Dominique Barbier✨ "I want people to smile when they ride, because if they don't smile, why are you riding?" – Dominique Barbier Dominique Barbier grew up in France with no horsey family background, but an early and almost uncanny sensitivity to horses that set him apart from the biomechanical training he encountered in England and France. After training and competing across multiple disciplines, he made his way to Portugal to study for two years with the legendary Nuno Oliveira, absorbing lessons that would go on to shape the French-Portuguese school of dressage he now teaches worldwide from his base in California. This conversation centers on Don Giovanni, the volatile, nearly-destroyed stallion who became Dominique's greatest teacher, and the three-step process of "getting out of the way" that Dominique developed to earn his trust. Dominique and Rupert also dig into descente de main and descente de jambe, the difference between riding physically and riding mentally, and Dominique's blunt take on spurs, competition, and the pursuit of joy over technique. A candid, wide-ranging two-hour conversation from one of dressage's most original voices.FREE Helios Harmony Intro Course: https://longridehome.com/onoutpoutAll Books Mentioned: https://longridehome.com/books What You'll Learn in This Episode00:03:00 – Dominique's unusual early sensitivity to horses and how his father let him follow his passion00:12:00 – Why Dominique says a horse doesn't anticipate — he reads your mind00:16:00 – The nine months Dominique couldn't ride, and what he discovered about the intellectual mind blocking connection00:20:00 – Dominique's 90/10 philosophy: staying out of the horse's way00:39:00 – How Dominique met and nearly lost the chance to save Don Giovanni, the horse who taught him the most00:48:00 – The three-step process Dominique used to earn Don Giovanni's trust00:52:00 – Reading a horse's true preferences through nature, play, and "crazy time"01:04:00 – The story behind descente de main, descente de jambe from Dominique's time with Nuno Oliveira01:13:00 – Why Dominique now teaches people to smile when they ride01:50:00 – Fear as simply "what you don't know," and how Dominique helps students move through it Memorable Moments from the Episode00:42:00 – The dramatic story of winning the right to bring Don Giovanni home — a horse marked for destruction01:26:00 – Dominique's candid reflection on Nuno Oliveira's complicated inner life, and why he never wanted to "be" his master01:42:00 – Dominique's confession about once owning 300 spurs, and why he regrets it02:00:00 – Dominique reveals his upcoming book, simply titled Consciousness02:16:00 – Dominique's parting invitation to share a glass of Merlot with Rupert in California Guest Contact & LinksDominique Barbier Website: https://dominiquebarbier.com About Dominique BarbierDominique Barbier is one of the leading figures in classical dressage, known as an exponent of the French-Portuguese school. Raised in France with no equestrian family background, he trained across multiple disciplines before spending two formative years studying under the legendary Nuno Oliveira in Portugal. He has authored numerous books, including Dressage for the New Age, with a new book titled Consciousness forthcoming, and continues to teach and train worldwide from his base in California. His approach emphasizes visualization, presence, and reading what a horse genuinely enjoys over rigid technique. 🐎 Want to go deeper? Join the Long Ride Home membership — weekly live sessions, exclusive content, and a community of riders seeking real connection with their horses. 👉 https://longridehome.com — just $24.95/month See All of Rupert's Programs and Shows:Website: https://rupertisaacson.com Follow Us:Long Ride Home Website: https://longridehome.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/longridehome.lrh Instagram: https://instagram.com/longridehome_lrh YouTube: https://youtube.com/@longridehomeNew Trails Learning Systems Website: https://ntls.co Facebook: https://facebook.com/horseboyworld Instagram: https://instagram.com/horseboyworld YouTube: https://youtube.com/newtrailslearningsystems Affiliate Disclosure:Links to books and products may include affiliate tracking. We may earn a commission if you make a purchase, at no extra cost to you. Thank you for supporting the show.

The Compton Cowboys: Healing Racial Trauma with Horses | Louis Hook & Kansas Carradine | EAW 58

✨ "I believe that in our ancestry we were equestrians, and that's why it's connected so hard with my family." – Louis Hook For 35 years, the Compton Cowboys mission has run a self-development program in Compton, California, that leverages horses to help kids grow into upstanding young men and women — serving roughly 30 kids a year. Founding member Louis Hook and HeartMath practitioner Kansas Carradine, who has worked alongside the organization for years, join Rupert Isaacson to talk about the mission's history and how it works today. What started when Louis's sister Maisha Akbar moved to Compton's Richland Farms neighborhood in 1988 has grown into a four-track program covering horsemanship, equine science, farming, and self-development. Kansas brings the science side of the conversation, explaining how heart rate variability and heart coherence research from the HeartMath Institute is being used to help kids and horses regulate together.The conversation ranges from the history of West African cavalry culture and Mansa Musa to the concept of epigenetic and intergenerational trauma, and what Louis calls "Shadow PTSD" in kids growing up in high-violence neighborhoods. It's a wide-ranging discussion about ancestry, the funding challenges facing Black equestrian nonprofits, and why reconnecting to the history of Black horsemanship matters for healing. If you want to support the show, you can do so at Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/LongRideHome 🔍 What You'll Learn in This EpisodeHow the Compton Cowboys mission began 35 years ago when founder Maisha Akbar moved to Compton's Richland Farms neighborhoodWhy Compton developed an equestrian culture at all, and how a protective land deed kept it from being lost to urbanizationHow the Compton Cowboys' "four tracks" model — horsemanship, equine science, farming, and self-development — structures a full day for kidsWhy the program shifted from Western to English riding due to funding and racial barriers within the Western equestrian worldWhat HeartMath research reveals about heart rate variability (HRV) and how horses respond to human nervous system regulationHow epigenetic and intergenerational trauma is passed down, and why reconnecting to ancestry can support healingHow the Compton Cowboys' own research into Mansa Musa and West African cavalry culture reshaped their understanding of Black equestrian historyWhat "Shadow PTSD" means for kids growing up in high-violence neighborhoods, and why the organization believes it needs formal recognitionHow the Compton Cowboys have expanded to serve LA's broader community, not just Black familiesWhy field trips to ranches and farms are a powerful — and fundable — model for connecting urban kids to natureWhat it actually costs to run a nonprofit equestrian program, and how funding and celebrity support really work in practiceHow Compton Cowboys has advocated to keep equestrian centers open across LA CountyHow Rupert's own experience adapting fox hunting into inclusive countryside days connects to the episode's larger theme of nature and healing🎤 Memorable Moments from the Episode[00:01:00] Rupert introduces the Compton Cowboys, with founding member Louis Hook and HeartMath practitioner Kansas Carradine [00:06:00] The Richland Farms land deed that preserved Compton's equestrian culture  [00:32:00] The Compton Cowboys' behind-the-scenes role in Beyoncé's Super Bowl halftime show  [00:41:00] Inside the Compton Cowboys' four-track daily program for kids  [00:49:00] Kansas explains HeartMath's heart rate variability research and how horses respond to human regulation  [00:55:00] Discovering Mansa Musa and West African cavalry history after watching The Woman King  [01:19:00] Epigenetic trauma and the idea that DNA carries generations of memory  [01:41:00] The case for equine-assisted programs to formally recognize "Shadow PTSD" in high-violence neighborhoods [02:00:00] How to support Compton Cowboys, and the real cost of running summer camp 📚 Contact, Projects, and Resources MentionedLouis Hook & Kansas Carradine – Compton Cowboys https://comptoncowboys.com Compton Junior Equestrians (nonprofit) https://comptonjuniorequestrians.org New Trails Learning Systems – Horse Boy Method, Movement Method & Takhin Equine Integration https://ntls.co Rupert Isaacson / Long Ride Home https://rupertisaacson.com Patreon Support https://www.patreon.com/LongRideHome 🌍 Follow UsLong Ride Home https://longridehome.com https://facebook.com/longridehome.lrh https://instagram.com/longridehome_lrh https://youtube.com/@longridehome New Trails Learning Systems https://ntls.co https://facebook.com/horseboyworld https://instagram.com/horseboyworld https://youtube.com/newtrailslearningsystems 📊 Affiliate DisclosureLinks to books and products may include affiliate tracking. We may earn a commission if you make a purchase, at no extra cost to you. Thank you for supporting the show.

The Lost Art of Mounted Combat & Classical Dressage | Arne Koets | EP 57

✨ "The difference between destruction and creation kind of just disappears, and this is a beautiful thing to be able to do." – Arne Koets✨ "Are you making a foundation for a skyscraper or are you making a foundation for a shed? Those are not the same foundations." – Arne Koets Arne Koets is a historical dressage teacher, jouster, and practitioner of Rossfechten — mounted sword fighting — who trained at the Fürstliche Hofreitschule in Bückeburg, Germany, reaching the level of Hofberater (courtly rider). His work draws on European martial arts manuscripts dating back to the 14th and 15th centuries, blending biomechanics, classical in-hand work, and the disciplines of combat horsemanship into a living, practiced tradition. In this conversation, Rupert and Arne trace the deep connections between martial arts on horseback, tango, and the finest ideals of classical dressage. They explore how the same biomechanical principles that make a good fighter also make a good dancer — and how understanding this can transform the way we train and relate to our horses. The conversation moves through in-hand work, the role of the schoolmaster horse, the philosophy of building community, and what it actually takes to get a beginner riding with confidence and joy from the very first lesson.A far-ranging, intellectually rich conversation that will delight history nerds, dressage geeks, and anyone who has ever wondered what riding was really for. TimestampsHow Arne's background in reconstructing European martial arts led him to historical dressage and Bückeburg [00:01:00]The connection between Argentine tango, wrestling, and riding — and why the line between building balance and destroying it is thinner than we think [00:10:00]Why teaching the collection work first, not last, is the old way — and why Steinbrecht actually agrees [00:16:00]The concept of unificare — inviting the horse to come up into an embrace with the rider — versus driving the seat bone down [00:25:00]Why confused definitions (what does "forward" actually mean?) have degraded the modern system of riding instruction [00:32:00]Arne's step-by-step in-hand training sequence: figure-of-eight, lateral movements, piaffe steps, and preparing for the first rider [01:03:00]The role of the "ground monkey" and "sky monkey" — why team work is not optional in breaking young horses [01:13:00]How Rossfechten (mounted sword fighting) builds community, releases ego, and teaches riders to feel what their horse is doing [01:26:00]Why horses become genuine strategic partners in mounted fencing — including Arne's story of a horse who executed a spontaneous 360 to protect his rider [01:41:00]How "deliberate hacking" — making conscious choices in the terrain — builds the horse's back and collection as effectively as arena work [02:30:00]A beginner sword fighter with zero riding experience sits piaffe on a stallion during his first lesson, then rides one-handed with a sword in canter by his tenth [00:16:00]Arne recounts confronting an FN clinician about why German riding schools don't follow what Steinbrecht actually says on page three [00:20:00]The horse who competed fully blindfolded by accident — caparison covering his eyes — and never put a foot wrong because rider and horse were one [01:44:00]Arne describes a group cavalry skirmish with 200 infantry and 48 mounted riders — and how the horses learn to aim the sword [02:13:00]The moment Arne's horse spontaneously executed a 360-degree bullfighting spin mid-sword fight, placed the weapon to parry an incoming blow, and then resumed the attack — entirely the horse's idea [01:41:00] Arne's Website: www.arnekoets.comRosswochen Symposium (first weekend of May — academic lectures, workshops, tango night, mounted demonstrations): www.arnekoets.comFürstliche Hofreitschule Bückeburg (the Princely School for Riding Art referenced throughout): www.hofgestut-bueckeburg.de About Arne KoetsArne Koets is a Dutch-born historical dressage teacher, jouster, and the foremost practitioner of Rossfechten — mounted sword fighting in the tradition of the European fighting manuscripts. He trained at the Fürstliche Hofreitschule in Bückeburg, Germany, achieving the rank of Hofberater, and spent years interpreting equestrian history at the Royal Armouries and the Dutch Army Museum. He now teaches clinics internationally and hosts students and riders at his home in Thuringia, Germany. His approach synthesizes biomechanics, classical in-hand work, and the martial arts manuscripts of the 14th through 16th centuries into a living, teachable system. His events attract riders from across Europe, the US, and beyond. 🐎 Want to go deeper? Join the Long Ride Home membership — weekly live sessions, exclusive content, and a community of riders seeking real connection with their horses. 👉 https://longridehome.com — just $24.95/month See All of Rupert's Programs and Shows:Website: https://rupertisaacson.com Follow Us:Long Ride Home  Website: https://longridehome.com  Facebook: https://facebook.com/longridehome.lrh  Instagram: https://instagram.com/longridehome_lrh  YouTube: https://youtube.com/@longridehome New Trails Learning Systems  Website: https://ntls.co  Facebook: https://facebook.com/horseboyworld  Instagram: https://instagram.com/horseboyworld  YouTube: https://youtube.com/newtrailslearningsystems Affiliate Disclosure:Links to books and products may include affiliate tracking. We may earn a commission if you make a purchase, at no extra cost to you. Thank you for supporting the show.